The life does not live for others to see
Most of the time for modern
Spend while struggling in the job, a kind of statement has nowadays prevailed:
“Exchange money with the life before 40 years old, spend money and change the life 40 years old later. ”
Another kinds of statement ” earn the first 1 million the life failing in front of 30 year old. ”
Rush about for the hard work of livelihood everyday, the health is ” overdrawed ” ceaselessly, their most excuse is ” too busy “. 30 year old of peoples 60 year old of heart diseases already of common occurrence, 40 about year old exactly halo glimmer, age vertically and horizontally of talent, but a lot of people are seized the young life by disease.
Life to live, show others, it one flower, turn on, fall silently too silent, so want, make more feasible analysis life, don’t let, ” busy with “, neglect much more, leave health some more time and space.
The people in middle age, invite relatives and friends to take a walk, it is taken the picture, have a chat while walking that the top of the head bright moon is bright, the sea and sky are boundless, speak out freely, has not only increase knowledge but also promoted the emotion.
The stroll is still the best thinking way, the affairs of human life are wordy, the wave in life, will cast aside temporarily, thinking is quicker too, is a most effective method of making arteriosclerosis soften too.
The material is abundant now, but many people have puzzled soul, do not understand the psychology reduces pressure, do not understand recreation.
Life needs to be abundant and the equilibrium is precipitated, people’s mistaken idea lies in getting the gold and still bearing the one that turns a crude essay into a literary gem in mind constantly to point.
Calm urgent to hasten, but urgent freely, discretion but manic, indifferent to fame or gain and mediocre, a kind of other style that not either is positive.
In the tour of endless life, only the simple person lives, could really become the host of one’s own life.
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The life does not live for others to see
Desember 10th, 2009 by greenlifeThe man, woman’s marriage attitude
Desember 10th, 2009 by greenlifeThe man, woman’s marriage attitude
Man and woman face the attitude of the marriage
The love is all of the woman’s, love is a small component of the man’s
In the man’s world, the person that immerses in the romantic love all day is good for nothing, because the man’s achievement is the improvement from development in the undertaking and social status, but not depend on the reliance of the remaining half! The emotion just dispels one’s own lonely one.
But woman from she remaining half fond ofing whole-heartedly in motive power of life, will like, make any sacrifice for woman this for him ‘ The work only earns the activity unlikely to be divorced from society of salary) .
So the woman is often disappointed unable to put her in the undertaking in the first precedence to the man, still inferior to the friend sometimes, but the man can not stand woman’s wanting him to prove that love her from morning till night.
The man minds the relation, woman to mind and feel
The purpose that the man courts the woman lies in” confirming the relation “, and usually during the process of pursuing
The man places the woman above the other things, will demonstrate one’s own best side too, in order to the sweet-smelling heart; But so long as the relation is steady, the activity pursued will be slowed down, even stop, fall from peak to the bottom of valley immediately. (The man’s romance begins with and falls in love at first sight, stop ordering each other all the life. )
Woman like pursuit to accept man, because ‘ feel ‘, very good, and only kind feeling continuously, woman talents may decide the relation. Once the good feeling does not just concern it again again. (Woman loyal and steadfast to begin with, book, all the life, stop on downhearted each other. )
Crisis awareness of man come from ‘ relation ‘ waver, why is these man it resents to be betrayal ‘ relation ‘ of woman most, once he thinks the green cap worn, the jealous anger will let him lose reason on ordinary days, academic level person is all right.
Crisis awareness of woman come from ‘ status ‘ reduce, why is these woman it minds to be oneself belong to remaining half most ‘ like most ‘, once she thinks that there are others that deserve the husband’s attention and care even more than she, more gentle and more quiet little woman will have a shocking action too. (, such as saying that modulates the aqua regia) So the woman only lets can hung on man’s face, everything is in order to discuss; The man only lets the woman feel happy, will let bygones be bygones.
The man regards marriage as and accepts the obligation, woman to regard marriage as letting for the right
The man decides to get married, mean looking after her all one’s life from now on. (but might not only look after her all one’s life, may know and ” look after ” others once in a while, vary with each individual)
The woman decides to get married, the key to mean opening the heart door is only given to that man, accept emotion (take key open, key can get back) of him only . The man does not second express the love with the loyalty, by supporting to extend the relation
Woman think, like, sacrifice, come, express love, depend on, move, come, irrigate, feel.
Sensitivity of man in get married on disability, unless he feel, have crisis can revive once again the same day. And what the woman wants is only the feeling that is held and fond of on hands in the heart, do not really want the man to give up the rivers and mountains, why did the man grudge the honeyed words?
The man one communication the communications of by saying, woman by ‘ experience ‘
Man think have discontented to say out just, the other side could know, needn’t guess that guess; Do not talk being discontented out! To have no way of, improve, express, full of, wake up the other side, solve the problem for some while being convenient, it is a kind of bridge communicating with good intention.
Woman to used to, have what discontent give vent to, come out, often for want, destroy feel and relation, will most likely adopt the attitude tolerated first.
The woman is not used to expressing mood with speech either, the woman thinks if the man really minds, would not check, think, happen discontented mood of woman, say, come out, even should know at all; But if the man does not say diligently enough that there may be crises to come out,
The man should communicate first, just have a good feeling. The woman should have a good feeling first, would just like to communicate. Couple communicate heavy obstacle lie in language to be different most, and unwilling to condescend to take this post the other side’s language, the result is not to even have will of communicating. (this is an origin of quarrelling too)
Man treat the woman’s complaint as, come, get rid of often, woman treat the man’s complaint as ‘ shifts one’s love to another person ‘, symbolize often.
The man always regards the woman’s complaint as the discontent to one’s own shortcoming, thought that so long as gave up these shortcomings, can solve problem, concern, influence just. (But often the woman’s complaint is often to remind men to do the thing not done, but not demand to change)
The symbol which the woman often regards the man’s complaint as ‘ not love me again ‘, then since ‘ charming strength no longer begin ‘, or suspect whether the other side has new sweethearts. Have a lot of woman believe no wonder - so long as stomach to hold man can catch men?
Accept the plastic surgery or take hundreds of thousands of yuan to go to the beauty centre, in order to retrieve the man’s attention. (but often just judge the case as it stands in actually the man’s complaint, are not disliking and avoiding) . The man’s ignorance lies in thinking behavioral correction could retrieve the feeling that women are wounded,
It is to create a happy emotion to in fact smooth the most effective method of wound, but not promise to never do it again. The woman’s innocence lies in thinking that dressing up oneself like a wild flower could let men not win the wild flower,
Man it abandons the old for the new to be to really must want, make a fresh start sometimes in fact, want, prove oneself have people take. At this moment, it is one that cries for two and makes a noise, run counter to desire instead.
It is different that man and woman are born in emotional world manners, cool warmly after the man is in the wedding, from romantic while transferring to rational life, but the woman just begins to open the heart door and plan to enjoy romance. If the disappointed person to marriage is the first grade stupid because of this, think that will change a man (woman) because of this It is super and cumbersome to be will be better.
Unless lifetime you this no longer believe the marriage, otherwise wait for God to bring a miracle to you with it, it would be better to learn to know the man (the woman) With linking up the method really.
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It is a kind of virtue too to be magnanimous
Agustus 7th, 2009 by greenlifeIt is a kind of virtue too to be magnanimous
There is a famous musician, has ever served as the captain of the private band of duke of Russian Peter home before becoming famous.
Suddenly one day, the duke decided to dismiss this band, when musicians heard this news, all see eye to eye, find it hard to concentrate at one time, does not know what to do. Looking at these intimate companions sharing weal and woe for a lot of years with oneself, he sleeps without going to bed, having no appetite for food, rack one’s brains, think it over, suddenly there was an idea.
He has composed a ” say good-bye to the song” immediately, says that wants to do the unique farewell performance of the last for the duke, the duke has agreed.
This night, it is played for the duke that it was the last time, the musicians expression was dull, all ideas are dashed, can’t cheer up at all, but see it on the mutual affection in these days of getting along with duke’s family, everybody tries one’s best, plays making all-out efforts.
The melody of melody at the beginning extremely merry and graceful, express emotion and bright friendship in duke thoroughly, the duke is moved deeply. Gradually, the melody has been transferred lucidly and livelily to mildly and roundaboutly, it is low-spirited to transfer to gradually, the end, the sad ambience fills the air in the hall.
At this moment, only see a happy hand stop, blow out the candle on the music book, have made a bow to the duke deeply, then left silently. After a while, a musician has left in a same way. In this way, one musicians leave away continuing one, when getting to the end, in the hollow hall, have only left him alone. Only see him make a bow to the duke deeply, put out the candle commanded on the shelf, the hall of such a size has been left secretly in a flash.
Proper, he, like other happy hands too, when really leave quietly alone, the duke’s mood has already culminated, he can’t help again, has shouted loudly: ” What is the matter on earth is this? ” He answers sincerely and affectionately: ” The duke adult, it is our all bands that are doing the last farewell to you! ” The duke realized the truth to come over suddenly at this time, can’t help shedding the tears: ” Ah! No! Please let me consider again. ”
In this way, he succeeds in making dukes pass the team members of all bands down with a peculiar atmosphere of ” saying good-bye to the song “. He is praised as ” Father of the music ” World-famous musician - The sea steps on,
In the world of mortals, have many people who will do it in this way as you and me of all living things: You treat me badly, I will not be kind to you either. For example, when abandon, is dismiss, is left school, often know the anger anger to leave away, even adopt the reprisal; And one such situation, some people, while abandoning the other side or planning to job-hop, unwilling to leave a good impression on the other side too, the result has presented a kind of terrible final result. On the contrary, the sea steps on and knows very well, even if is the last time, leave away beautiful limitlessly equally, in order to leave both sides some more beautiful ones or things that is worth remembering some other time. As a result, true feelings of him magnanimous to say good-bye and reverse the tide. meshowfashion
Clever like we person, tolerant to more of others as you; More magnanimous; More is tolerated; More is shown consideration for; More forgives, meanwhile, you will lack some sorrow too by oneself; Less trouble; Few and gloomy a little; Few and depressed a little; Less unhappiness; Having reduced the angry weight that overtaxed one’s nerves of dawdling, has increased the base figure with happy health, the meaning between the lines, treat others kindly and is good for ownly, even if you do not mouth high-sounding words; Do not say either the empty verbiage is talked about; Just think with full authority that thinks about your personal long-term interest, can not go wrong tolerantly and magnanimously! Can have who can say tolerant and magnanimous a kind of virtue?
Grow up with shade partner
Agustus 7th, 2009 by greenlifeGrow up with shade partner
Will nearly all be involved in a boy in the girl’s adolescence, the because of being fragile sensitive girl needs a partner accompanying like the shadow to cheer for one’s own growth to encourage. The steadfast and persevering and forthright and sincere boy often makes the such one “ Shade partner “ .
Small Yan self-funded student of one, one girl that silence feels self-humiliation. Have physical lesson, she doze off the pillow of head at arm. In being dim, she see opposite 30 a straight figure of corner ” brush ” Stand up,is it the sound without being thrown ground answer by question. She in click, head bump into tabletop ruthlessly, sleepiness the whole no. Her forehead which feel very painful, stand the laugh from sight and mocking of all directions. But straight background was not deviated from for a time all the time, perhaps he does not consider worth doing laughing at small Yan at all, so there is not even interest of casting a look at her.
He calls the cool tea, has promoted into the countless national key middle schools of long honor of this history directly. The cool flower is used to only wearing plimsolls, the cool tea likes gripping one’s own arms while cooking the difficult problem, cool tea take cold drink is cool to spend bookstall in the school gate buy ” Sports Weekly ” specially never, each part of bike cracking and snapping cracking and snapping that the cool tea rides is being sung
Small Yan buy one note-book used for, record cool each detail of tea specially, bewitched. Very cool tea straight health slope half towards her never, eyeball stay second more than half on her all the time.
Perhaps she is really a extraordinariness ‘ Very ordinary) Girl,she have a few depressed.
In high term, it is ” interesting ” that small Yan is cherished Attitude participate in nationwide one composition Great Cold,lucky one very much, she has obtained the first prize. Entered the school door that day, small Yan saw cool tea and stopped before one’s own report of good news, she is so excited that the heart bursts out from the throat in the eyes quickly. He saw oneself at last, dark and dark, she decided to run to write this moment on the small book one at once. But she has fallen down, the left foot has stumbled the right foot, in the twinkling of an eye when she fell down, there are both hands that supported her, it is the cool tea. She think she can must faint, go over while being happy, but she so sober that very, smell pungent fox stink on the cool tea also.
Small Yan have, record a few words for cool tea again from then on.
Will present a boy’s image in each girl’s youthful diary. Protect you from neighbour eldest brother that bully often perhaps, perhaps it is the best classmates of the score in the class You are hit in a flash, then he begins to frequently appear in your diary, he turns round in his smile even his resting figure all make you crazy about deeply. Under the circumstances that you far look around, he is a sheer and perfect person, and the angel’s incarnation.
But one day, you walk close to him, you will find: Perhaps he will dig the nose in the public occasion, he eats Kentucky and likes licking the finger, he does not offer one’s seat pregnantly for the old,weak,sick and disabled His perfect image collapses with a loud crash. In fact he originally just like this,just you from before see. As you think them not perfect, even while beginning to detest them, that must be because you grow up, you no longer need shade partner, you believe you are the most excellent, you have already gathered enough strength and chosen to go down firmly alone, scenery of a line of wonderful doing alone walks out. meshowfashion
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